Cheating Is A Decision

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I’ve known my partner for 20 out of my 38 years, and cheating and adultery are issues that we’ve debated and contended with in all of those 20 years. Some of my assumptions and opinions will reflect personal experiences from a man’s viewpoint; they should not be taken as generally applicable to all men.




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